Recently, I have found myself wondering what I really enjoy doing. I have so many expectations for myself, activities I should try, places I should go, foods I should cook with, etc. And while I do enjoy trying new things and pushing myself outside of my comfort zones, I think it is also important for me to simply enjoy life sometimes, which raises one question.
What do I enjoy?
For a while, I think that I lost sight of the little things in life I do enjoy because I was so focused on trying new things or working or just getting through and surviving. So I’ve both spent time thinking about what I enjoy and asked a dear friend who has known me for years to remind me what activities bring me delight and joy. To be honest, once I thought about it, the following list was not surprising since these are activities that I have enjoyed for a good long time.
- Exploring and traveling – I genuinely love to wander around and discover new places, which is probably why I love to travel. I have yet to travel the world, but I hope to one day.
- Playing the piano – I began playing the piano when I was six and was even a piano performance major prior to injuring my wrist in college. Playing the piano is one way that I express myself, a comfort that I can always turn to.
- Listening to music – Along with playing music, I love listening to music, analyzing it, or just enjoying the moods it evokes. I love my tried and true favorite artists, but I also love learning about new artists and expanding my musical horizons.
- Writing – Though I am afraid of failing and therefore don’t write or blog as often as I should, I find writing to be very therapeutic and simply delightful. Once I injured my wrist, I began to use writing as an outlet to express myself and my thoughts, even if it is simply in my journal.
- Reading – My punishment as a child used to be that I was forbidden from reading. From an early age, my mother instilled a love of reading that I still maintain. I was an English Literature major post wrist injury solely because I love to read. I now try to read at least one new book a week.
- Taking pictures – Though I’m definitely the most amateur photographer ever, I find great delight in taking pictures of random objects in my life. My most favorite way to take pictures is to just take my camera with me on a walk or exploration and photograph what I find to be interesting.
- Planning and organizing – I’m an organizational freak. Organizing and planning soothes my soul. When I’m upset, I’ll often organize; my thoughts sort themselves out as I physically sort through and organize whatever happens to be lying around. The ability to organize and carry out a plan is so refreshing. I love to plan, even though I know my plans will always change. At least I figured out the puzzle of the plan and understand its components first.
- Cooking – This hobby is more recent than most, but I have really enjoyed cooking and trying new recipes. I like to play with flavors and think of new recipes, as well as being able to cook a delicious meal when I’m just craving homecooked goodness.
- Baking – Though I don’t typically have a major sweet tooth (pregnancy has changed that a little), I enjoy baking. Being able to create a good scone to go with my morning coffee or pie or cake for a friends’ birthday is just amazing.
- Conversing with friends – What can I say? I love a good conversation with people I love.
While I will definitely continue to push myself to try new things, I think I am going to try to make time to devote to the hobbies and activities I know I love. So far, I have greatly enjoyed playing music while I’m home cooking or cleaning or reading. I’ve spent more time in coffee shops talking with friends, reading, and writing. It’s been good.
What do you enjoy?